The Love Dare: A 40-Day Challenge for Husbands and Wives to Understand and Practice Unconditional Love - Includes Free Online Marriage Evaluation
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Description
Unconditional love is eagerly promised at weddings, but rarely practiced in real life. As a result, romantic hopes are often replaced with disappointment in the home. But it doesn’t have to stay that way. The Love Dare, New Revised Edition the New York Times No. 1 best seller that has sold five million copies and was major plot device in the popular movie Fireproof, is a 40-day challenge for husbands and wives to understand and practice unconditional love. Whether your marriage is hanging by a thread or healthy and strong, The Love Dare is a journey you need to take. It’s time to learn the keys to finding true intimacy and developing a dynamic marriage. This second edition also features a special link to a free online marriage evaluation, a new preface by Stephen and Alex Kendrick, minor text updates, and select testimonials from The Love Dare readers. Take the dare! Read more
Details
Product Details
- Publisher
- B&H Books
- Publication date
- January 1, 2013
- Edition
- New Revised
- Language
- English
- Print length
- 256 pages
- ISBN-10
- 1433679590
- ISBN-13
- 978-1433679599
- Item Weight
- 2.31 pounds
- Dimensions
- 5.5 x 0.72 x 8.5 inches
Frequently asked questions
- What is this book about?
- It is a 40-day challenge for husbands and wives to understand and practice unconditional love.
- Is this book suitable for couples whose marriage is struggling?
- Yes, the description states: 'Whether your marriage is hanging by a thread or healthy and strong, The Love Dare is a journey you need to take.'
- Does this edition include any special features?
- Yes, it features a special link to a free online marriage evaluation and a new preface by Stephen and Alex Kendrick.
Customer reviews
Life saver and marriage saver
I have not finished this book, but let me tell you, it contains principles that you can put to work in your every day life with everyone. This book is amazing for the soul. It's great for introspection: am I really as good as I think I am? am I really as loving? what can I work on? what bothers me and why? These questions come up (not in the book) when you're thinking about the "dares" that they give to you. The first dare is to not say anything negative to your spouse, and if you feel the need to, don't say anything at all. My husband and I are happily married and incredibly in love, but I see that not all couples are still like this, so this book is awesome for them. I got it because I know there are times where I can be insensitive to his feelings and needs and I write it off as me being hormonal-- but in the end, I realize that I still hurt him and it broke my heart that I could ever act in a less than loving way. Even though we aren't like the couple in the movie (have you seen the movie Fireproof? Watch it with something to wipe your tears on near by!), I still feel that everything I am learning in this book is definitely applicable. What's nice is there are 40 days in this book, which has Biblical significance. Even if you're not religious or don't read the Bible, I would still recommend this book to anyone because it does touch on the needs of the soul (even if you don't think you have one, it still touches something!). Give this book a try. If your marriage is slowly depleting, if you feel that your spouse isn't as responsive or kind to you as before, if you want to make sure that your beautiful marriage stays as loving and as happy as it is now, try this book out. I originally bought this book when my husband and I first got married, and I didn't take it too seriously because... Well I never struggled with the issues the book brought up and I thought I didn't need it. Even though we are still in love, I can say that you get "too comfortable" and may not treat them as nicely as you did when you first got married, but this book keeps you in check and reminds you why you fell in love in the first place. It makes you a bit more grateful for your spouse or loved one. If you feel like you could use a little bit more love in your life and don't have a spouse or boyfriend, this book is good for this as well. Not everything will apply, but it gives great insight. I totally recommend it to everyone. It's not that much and it could save your marriage or relationship.
I have not finished this book, but let me tell you, it contains principles that you can put to work in your every day life with everyone. This book is amazing for the soul. It's great for introspection: am I really as good as I think I am? am I really as loving? what can I work on? what bothers me and why? These questions come up (not in the book) when you're thinking about the "dares" that they give to you. The first dare is to not say anything negative to your spouse, and if you feel the need to, don't say anything at all. My husband and I are happily married and incredibly in love, but I see that not all couples are still like this, so this book is awesome for them. I got it because I know there are times where I can be insensitive to his feelings and needs and I write it off as me being hormonal-- but in the end, I realize that I still hurt him and it broke my heart that I could ever act in a less than loving way. Even though we aren't like the couple in the movie (have you seen the movie Fireproof? Watch it with something to wipe your tears on near by!), I still feel that everything I am learning in this book is definitely applicable. What's nice is there are 40 days in this book, which has Biblical significance. Even if you're not religious or don't read the Bible, I would still recommend this book to anyone because it does touch on the needs of the soul (even if you don't think you have one, it still touches something!). Give this book a try. If your marriage is slowly depleting, if you feel that your spouse isn't as responsive or kind to you as before, if you want to make sure that your beautiful marriage stays as loving and as happy as it is now, try this book out. I originally bought this book when my husband and I first got married, and I didn't take it too seriously because... Well I never struggled with the issues the book brought up and I thought I didn't need it. Even though we are still in love, I can say that you get "too comfortable" and may not treat them as nicely as you did when you first got married, but this book keeps you in check and reminds you why you fell in love in the first place. It makes you a bit more grateful for your spouse or loved one. If you feel like you could use a little bit more love in your life and don't have a spouse or boyfriend, this book is good for this as well. Not everything will apply, but it gives great insight. I totally recommend it to everyone. It's not that much and it could save your marriage or relationship.
This Book Saved Our Relationship
The Love Dare is not just a book to us — it truly saved our love and changed the course of our lives. Because of this book, the man who once dared to fight for our relationship is now my husband, and we have been happily married for over 7 years. Our journey with The Love Dare began when we first watched the movie “Fireproof” together while we were still boyfriend and girlfriend. (The movie talks about A dedicated firefighter's marriage is about to end in divorce, but just when hope seems to be running out, his father intervenes with a plan). At the time, we didn’t know how deeply that story would one day impact our own relationship. Like many couples, we went through a very hard season. Our relationship struggled, and we eventually separated. During that time, my boyfriend (who is now my husband) remembered the book mentioned in Fireproof. He searched for The Love Dare and decided to follow it, not as a way to demand love, but as a way to change himself first and learn how to love with patience, humility, and actions. Each day’s challenge may seem simple, but it is incredibly powerful. This book teaches you to love unconditionally, even when emotions are weak or wounds are deep. It focuses on respect, kindness, forgiveness, and choosing love as a daily decision. That journey brought us back together, stronger and more grounded than before. Today, he is my husband, and The Love Dare continues to be something we look back on with gratitude. Even after 7+ years of marriage, the lessons from this book still guide us — especially during challenging moments. This book is not a quick fix, and it’s not always easy. It requires honesty, humility, and commitment. But if both hearts are willing, it can truly transform a relationship. If you are struggling, separated, or simply want to build a stronger foundation for your relationship or marriage, I wholeheartedly recommend watching the movie Fireproof and read The Love Dare. For us, it wasn’t just a book — it was the beginning of a lifelong commitment and a love that chose to endure.
The Love Dare is not just a book to us — it truly saved our love and changed the course of our lives. Because of this book, the man who once dared to fight for our relationship is now my husband, and we have been happily married for over 7 years. Our journey with The Love Dare began when we first watched the movie “Fireproof” together while we were still boyfriend and girlfriend. (The movie talks about A dedicated firefighter's marriage is about to end in divorce, but just when hope seems to be running out, his father intervenes with a plan). At the time, we didn’t know how deeply that story would one day impact our own relationship. Like many couples, we went through a very hard season. Our relationship struggled, and we eventually separated. During that time, my boyfriend (who is now my husband) remembered the book mentioned in Fireproof. He searched for The Love Dare and decided to follow it, not as a way to demand love, but as a way to change himself first and learn how to love with patience, humility, and actions. Each day’s challenge may seem simple, but it is incredibly powerful. This book teaches you to love unconditionally, even when emotions are weak or wounds are deep. It focuses on respect, kindness, forgiveness, and choosing love as a daily decision. That journey brought us back together, stronger and more grounded than before. Today, he is my husband, and The Love Dare continues to be something we look back on with gratitude. Even after 7+ years of marriage, the lessons from this book still guide us — especially during challenging moments. This book is not a quick fix, and it’s not always easy. It requires honesty, humility, and commitment. But if both hearts are willing, it can truly transform a relationship. If you are struggling, separated, or simply want to build a stronger foundation for your relationship or marriage, I wholeheartedly recommend watching the movie Fireproof and read The Love Dare. For us, it wasn’t just a book — it was the beginning of a lifelong commitment and a love that chose to endure.
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ A Life-Changing Book for Any Marriage!
The Love Dare has been an absolute blessing for my wife and me! From the moment we started reading, we realized this book is more than just words—it’s a transformative journey that challenges and strengthens your marriage in ways you never expected. Each day’s dare provides practical, heartfelt guidance to help build deeper love, understanding, and patience. It’s not just about surface-level actions—it encourages real, meaningful change by helping couples grow closer, communicate better, and love unconditionally. One of the things I love most is how this book is rooted in faith and biblical principles, reminding us that love is a choice and a commitment, not just a feeling. The daily challenges are eye-opening and powerful, encouraging us to be more selfless, patient, and intentional in our relationship. Since starting The Love Dare, I’ve noticed a positive shift in how my wife and I interact. It has strengthened our bond, deepened our appreciation for each other, and reminded us of the true meaning of love. If you’re looking for a way to revive, restore, or strengthen your marriage, I highly recommend this book. It’s truly a must-read for any couple, whether newlyweds or decades into marriage. ❤️🙏✨
The Love Dare has been an absolute blessing for my wife and me! From the moment we started reading, we realized this book is more than just words—it’s a transformative journey that challenges and strengthens your marriage in ways you never expected. Each day’s dare provides practical, heartfelt guidance to help build deeper love, understanding, and patience. It’s not just about surface-level actions—it encourages real, meaningful change by helping couples grow closer, communicate better, and love unconditionally. One of the things I love most is how this book is rooted in faith and biblical principles, reminding us that love is a choice and a commitment, not just a feeling. The daily challenges are eye-opening and powerful, encouraging us to be more selfless, patient, and intentional in our relationship. Since starting The Love Dare, I’ve noticed a positive shift in how my wife and I interact. It has strengthened our bond, deepened our appreciation for each other, and reminded us of the true meaning of love. If you’re looking for a way to revive, restore, or strengthen your marriage, I highly recommend this book. It’s truly a must-read for any couple, whether newlyweds or decades into marriage. ❤️🙏✨
Helpful
I purchased this book before when having my own difficulties in my relationship, now I purchased it for my son and his relationship. I believe this book helps with self reflection and realization, and helps with your relationship.
I purchased this book before when having my own difficulties in my relationship, now I purchased it for my son and his relationship. I believe this book helps with self reflection and realization, and helps with your relationship.
